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		<title>Narcissistic Personality Disorder &#8211; The Killer of Relationships</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Jan 2012 15:30:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Ward</dc:creator>
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<p>Very few people have ever heard of it, but Narcissistic Personality Disorder is an almost commonplace occurrance in both personal circles of influence and in business relationships. It&#8217;s not getting any better either. Narcissistic Personality Disorder has found its way into even school aged children whose parents have been so ill-prepared in raising emotionally (and spiritually) balanced children, that their children grow up thinking and acting out narcissistic behavior. Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) can wreak havoc on relationships if you do not get it under control too.</p>
<p>It is something that is continually addressed in our personal development coaching and success coaching practice &#8211; and many times we discover that it is the result of some of the main stream &#8216;motivational&#8217; and &#8216;personal success&#8217; coaches that have brought it out in people thorugh &#8216;self-help&#8217; books, CDs, and DVDs that are eagerly bought up by people who want to &#8216;take control&#8217; of their lives.</p>
<p>Hey, I am all for someone getting a handle on their lives. Don&#8217;t get me wrong here. What I AM opposed to is the result of such teachings and motivational lectures that ultimately bring with it a mentality of superiority and self-exaltation to a place where it does more harm than good. I have seen NPD destroy marriages, bankrupt businesses, and adversely affect the lives of children who are exposed to adults (mainly parents) who suffer from Narcissistic Personality Disorder.</p>
<p>See if you can recognize any of the following symptom in those in and around your life, or in young adults that you might know. And, as in everything that we learn concerning personal develipment, take a little time and do a serious self-examination of your own life and see if any of these symptoms are present in your own life.</p>
<p>What is Narcissistic Personality Disorder?</p>
<p>Narcissistic personality disorder is characterized by dramatic, emotional behavior, in the same category as antisocial and borderline personality disorders.</p>
<p>Narcissistic personality disorder symptoms may include:</p>
<p>-  Believing that you&#8217;re better than others<br />
-  Fantasizing about power, success and attractiveness<br />
-  Exaggerating your achievements or talents<br />
-  Expecting constant praise and admiration<br />
- Believing that you&#8217;re special and acting accordingly<br />
- Failing to recognize other people&#8217;s emotions and feelings<br />
- Expecting others to go along with your ideas and plans<br />
- Taking advantage of others and then justifying your actions<br />
- Expressing disdain for those you feel are inferior<br />
- Being jealous of others or always being suspicious of others motives<br />
- Believing that others are jealous of you and suspicous of your motives<br />
- Trouble keeping healthy relationships, especially with the opposite sex<br />
- Setting unrealistic goals for yourself or for others<br />
- Being easily hurt and rejected &#8211; living from one pitty party to another<br />
- Having a fragile self-esteem and feeling that you don&#8217;t measure up<br />
- Appearing as tough-minded or unemotional</p>
<p>Although some features of narcissistic personality disorder may seem like having confidence or strong self-esteem, it&#8217;s not the same. Narcissistic personality disorder crosses the border of healthy confidence and self-esteem into thinking so highly of yourself that you put yourself on a pedestal. In contrast, people who have healthy confidence and self-esteem don&#8217;t value themselves more than they value others.</p>
<p>When you have narcissistic personality disorder, you may come across as conceited, boastful or pretentious. You often monopolize conversations or speak over others when they attempt to interject or contribute. You may belittle or look down on people you perceive as inferior. You may have a sense of entitlement (an &#8220;I deserve this&#8221; mentality). And when you don&#8217;t receive the special treatment to which you feel entitled, you may become very impatient or angry. You may insist on having &#8220;the best&#8221; of everything — the best car, athletic club, medical care or social circles, for instance, even if it is at the expense of others happiness or well-being (the cause of many a bankrupt marriages and cause for divorce when the one suffering does not get their needs met in these material ways).</p>
<p>Most often, underneath all this behavior there lies a fragile self-esteem. If you are one that suffers from this, you have trouble handling anything that may be perceived as criticism. You may have a sense of secret shame and humiliation. The result can often be that you yourself feel better by reacting with rage or contempt, and efforts to belittle the other person to make yourself appear better.  This is especially common in marital relationships, and the recipient of such abuse can suffer for years afterwards in recovering from this sort of abuse.</p>
<p>If you Suspect that you or someone you know is suffering from this, the best thing you can do for the health of all involved is to seek out intervention and counseling.</p>
<p>When to See a Doctor</p>
<p>When you have narcissistic personality disorder, you may not want to think that anything could be wrong — doing so wouldn&#8217;t fit with your self-image of power and perfection. But by definition, narcissistic personality disorder causes problems in many areas of your life, such as relationships, work, school or your financial affairs. You may be generally unhappy and confused by a mix of seemingly contradictory emotions. Others may not enjoy being around you, and you may find your relationships unfulfilling.</p>
<p>If you notice any of these problems in your life, consider reaching out to a pastor, Christian counselor, rabbi, trusted health care provider or mental health provider. Getting the right help and/or intervention treatment can radically change your life for the good, and dramatically help make your life (and relationships in and outside of your family) more rewarding and enjoyable.</p>
<p>Acknowledgements: Our thanks to the medical staff at Mayo Clinic for their research and medical intervention assistance in helping those who suffer with this diabilitating disorder. Please visit the following link to learn more and to see how you or someone you know can get help:  <a href="http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/narcissistic-personality-disorder/DS00652/DSECTION=symptoms" target="_blank">MAYO CLINIC</a></p>
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		<title>Beware of the Social Media Wormhole</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Dec 2011 18:08:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Ward</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<a class='shareaholic-fbsend' data-shr_href='http%3A%2F%2Fsdward.com%2Fbeware-of-the-social-media-wormhole%2F'></a><a class='shareaholic-fblike' data-shr_layout='standard' data-shr_showfaces='false' data-shr_href='http%3A%2F%2Fsdward.com%2Fbeware-of-the-social-media-wormhole%2F' data-shr_title='Beware+of+the+Social+Media+Wormhole'></a>Beware of the Social Media Wormhole <p>&#160;</p> <p>Social media is one of the best prospecting tools you can utilize in your online marketing strategy. It has the potential to rank right up in the top lead generation strategies as organic lead generation search engine optimization (SEO).  When it [...]]]></description>
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<p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-2471" title="Social Media Mania!" src="http://sdward.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/socialmediaicons.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="151" />Social media is one of the best prospecting tools you can utilize in your online marketing strategy. It has the potential to rank right up in the top lead generation strategies as organic lead generation search engine optimization (SEO).  When it comes to warm contact marketing, i.e. personal relationship lead generation, social media is a powerful way to build relationships that build the Know, Like, and Trust factor that is important in customer acquisition and retention.</p>
<p>Through the use of personal profile development and wall postings, fan pages, business pages, groups, and all the options that a person has to build their personal brand on social media websites, social media is a huge success multiplier if it is used correctly.  When it comes to social media, the undisputed champion of the world is Facebook.  With expected growth to hit one billion users within the next 1 year, it is a virtual mega-wealth of opportunity if you know how to use it properly. But danger lurks in the shadows of social media involvement&#8230; the danger of it becoming a huge time waster.</p>
<h4>Sucked into the Wormhole</h4>
<p><img class="alignright size-large wp-image-2477" title="Virtual Worm Hole of the Internet" src="http://sdward.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Banner_Art-211-325x91.jpg" alt="" width="325" height="91" />The novelty of social media and Facebook in particular is that you can spend literally hours of your day on a social media website being continually drawn into the wormhole of social interaction. There is nothing wrong with social interaction, however, whether you are self-employed or on your job with &#8216;nothing to do&#8217; (this is a whole topic of personal integrity alone), if you are not careful, you can see literally hours wasted in your day (this includes smart phone status messaging and responding too).</p>
<blockquote><p>If you don&#8217;t have a disciplined daily schedule, it won&#8217;t take long before you&#8217;re sucked into the social media wormhole and see hours of your productive day literally sucked out of your existence.</p></blockquote>
<h4>Getting a Handle on Your Social Media Time</h4>
<p>Here are some action steps to take in order to make social media your friend in productivity and not the nemesis of your daily productivity.</p>
<p>1) Do a time audit of a typical day in your work week. Determine how much time is required for you to get your primary job done in a manner that is worthy of acknowledgment and praise, either by your employer if you are employed, or by your employees if you own your own business. If you are self-employed, have no employees, and are not accountable to anyone, social media could very well rob you of tens of thousands of dollars in lost productivity. Be honest in auditing your daily time spent using social media.</p>
<p><img class="alignleft size-large wp-image-2478" title="Get a handle on your time if you want to be successful." src="http://sdward.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/time-is-running-out-325x216.jpg" alt="" width="325" height="216" />2) Once you have an accurate time audit of your productive day (the time each day that you are supposed to be making money for you or your employer), establish a specific amount of time for using social media for a) your business use, and b) your personal use, then stick to your schedule. You might find that 30 minutes a day of concentrated focus on building your social media presence is enough to accomplish everything productive that you want to do on it. If so, do not waste additional time in surfing your social media network IF you cannot honestly say that it is financially productive for you to do so.</p>
<p>3) Establish a systematic way of using social media and determine an allotment of time that you will devote to your social media marketing, THEN STICK TO IT.  If you only have 30 minutes each day to invest in social media, do it with a purpose. Check personal messages, add a status message that engages your followers (the goal is to generate meaningful dialogue for a specific purpose, i.e. financial success, personal brand building, etc)., accept friend requests, respond to wall posts on your wall, and request a few new connections- BUT KEEP TO YOUR TIME ALLOTMENT for social media interaction.  DO NOT wander aimlessly through the pages and pictures of your connections.  As fun as it might be, it keeps you from accomplishing your personal and professional goals for the day.</p>
<p>When you apply some basic principles of personal responsibility using social media, you will find that you will free up several hours a week in your schedule and become far more productive in pursuing your personal and professional goals.  What you do in your personal free time is up to you, but when it comes to making money, make a plan that iutilizes good time management skills, surround yourself with the right people to make it happen, and stick to your plan.</p>
<p>Remember, time is our greatest asset, and how we utilize it will directly affect our immediate success, as well as our long term goals.</p>
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		<title>Securing Your Computer and Website (Part 2)</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Dec 2011 05:00:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<a class='shareaholic-fbsend' data-shr_href='http%3A%2F%2Fsdward.com%2Fsecuring-your-computer-and-website-part2%2F'></a><a class='shareaholic-fblike' data-shr_layout='standard' data-shr_showfaces='false' data-shr_href='http%3A%2F%2Fsdward.com%2Fsecuring-your-computer-and-website-part2%2F' data-shr_title='Securing+Your+Computer+and+Website+%28Part+2%29'></a><p>We have probably all heard the old adage, that &#8216;a chain is only as strong as its weakest link.&#8217; The very same can be said about computers and Websites. You can have 99% of your computer and your Website secured, but it&#8217;s going to be that 1% that ultimately brings ruin [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><div style="clear: both; min-height: 1px; height: 3px; width: 100%;"></div><div class='shareaholic-like-buttonset' style='float:none;height:30px;'><a class='shareaholic-fbsend' data-shr_href='http%3A%2F%2Fsdward.com%2Fsecuring-your-computer-and-website-part2%2F'></a><a class='shareaholic-fblike' data-shr_layout='standard' data-shr_showfaces='false' data-shr_href='http%3A%2F%2Fsdward.com%2Fsecuring-your-computer-and-website-part2%2F' data-shr_title='Securing+Your+Computer+and+Website+%28Part+2%29'></a></div><div style="clear: both; min-height: 1px; height: 3px; width: 100%;"></div><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><p>We have probably all heard the old adage, that &#8216;a chain is only as strong as its weakest link.&#8217; The very same can be said about computers and Websites. You can have 99% of your computer and your Website secured, but it&#8217;s going to be that 1% that ultimately brings ruin to your overall security strategy. In my first installment on computer and Website security, i.e. Securing Your Computer and Website (Pt 1) I shared about the importance of anti-virus software, FTP passwords, operating system security patches, and software security patches.</p>
<p>I hope that if you have had the opportunity to read it, that you have begun, if not completed putting these security measures in place. If you have not had the opportunity to read it, and are unsure about how to starting being proactive as an Internet user and/or Website owner, please take the time to do so. In this installment of Securing Your Computer and Website, I want to focus primarily on the Website hosting service or server side of the security equation.</p>
<p>When I got started in computers and the Internet (seriously involved) in the middle 1990’s, when I was asked by a ‘newbie’ to computers and the Internet how to avoid viruses, being the conservative guy that I was (or rather, am), I simply said, ‘don’t look at porn online or visit porn websites.” It was really pretty straight forward and wise advice on multiple levels. At the time, 95% of all viruses were associated with seedy rogue Websites that offered pornography to their visitors (and viruses that were downloaded when they tried to save the pictures to their computers). Almost equally as bad as porn Websites were the file sharing websites that allowed users to trade files between themselves, like music and copyrighted materials (that incase you have not figured it out yet, is illegal).</p>
<p>If you avoided these types of Websites you were almost guaranteed that you would be mostly safe and secure from all the troubles associated with those who were foolish enough to use such Websites. Now days, any ‘Website, anywhere that is focused on a particular niche market is vulnerable. That is why it is important to actively protect your Website on the Web hosting server you use, whether it is your own dedicated Web server or you are hosted on a virtual dedicated Web server (a server where several Websites are hosted).</p>
<p>The following are precautions that you can take if you want to be proactive in protecting your Website from the possibility of security breaches:</p>
<p><strong>1)  Continually update your Website software to be sure you have the latest security patches.  </strong>Most Websites are not custom built, but rather templates and fairly basic platforms that most Internet users, if they want tot take the time to learn, can personally set up their own Website. Some Websites are more complex and much more customized, and are way beyond the average Internet user’s capability to build or maintain. In both instances, there is a continual need to be sure that your Website is secure and that the platform or Website development tools you are using to build and maintain your Website are continually upgraded with security patches.</p>
<p>Blogs are becoming a huge part of the Internet Website business and the WordPress blogging platform is by far one of the fastest growing platforms in popularity. It is the blogging platform we recommend to all of our clients. This blog is built on the WordPress blogging platform. Whatever you decide to use for your Website’s platform to build your Website, be sure that you are always running the latest version of the main software that powers your Website, and if they provide plug-ins like that of WordPress, be sure to upgrade your plug-ins whenever you are told to do so. The cool thing about WordPress is that it updates itself whenever there is a new patch or security or stability issue that needs to be addressed.</p>
<p>Unfortunately, because of the WordPress popularity, many of the latest hackers are targeting WordPress. Whatever you are using in the way of a Website platform, you can help to avoid security issues by always seeing that you are running the latest version and that if you use plug-ins for that platform, that you keep them up to date.</p>
<p><strong>2)  Get help from Google Webmaster to monitor your Website.</strong> Google has some pretty cool tools to help people use the Internet more effectively and securely. One of those tools is a Google Webmaster account, and it is FREE (I love that word… FREE). If you get your Google Webmaster account linked to your Website, should you be hacked by some cyber-dog, Google will send you an email to tell, and even what pages have been hit by the hacker. And, while your Google Webmaster account is not a prevention tool, it is a valuable free tool that is the cure to helping you solve your security problems. Google updates the pages they monitor every hour of every day, so for most Website owners who have and use the Google Webmaster account, Google is most often the first to notice your site has a problem, and lets you know.</p>
<p><strong>3)  Confirm with your Web hosting provider that they keep their server patches updated. </strong>Most of us use third party web hosting (meaning you don’t have your Website hosted on your own computer). As a general rule, most people assume that their Web hosting company is proactive with their hosting servers. Unfortunately, they are not. But you can still make sure that your host is doing everything they can by asking. Send an email to their support department and ask them directly how often they implement server updates and security patches, and what their security methods are. When they respond, print out and keep a copy of the response in your Personal Identity Security folder for future reference (you attorneys know what I am talking about). It is sometimes worth paying a bit more to make sure your host is doing as much as you are to protect your site, your business, and you.</p>
<p><strong>4) Check your server file permissions and see that they are secure.  </strong>Imagine having a really nice garden that you have spent months cultivating and it is just beautiful and something you are really proud of, and to get into the garden, there are 4 different gates that allow access to it. Three of those gates are securely locked, but you have not taken the time to lock the fourth. If a gate is left open, as gardening goes, something or someone come through it and there is no telling the damage that will be done to your garden (thinking of a particular neighborhood dog right now that really likes to dig under tomato plants). Server file permissions are sort of little like these gates to your garden. If you leave access to your server files (files that make your Website work and collect information from visitors or users) unlocked, the dog(s) will get in via these unsecured permissions that have been set incorrectly. Although they can be quite hard to understand, if you speak with your hosting company, they can make sure that your permissions are correct and secure.</p>
<p>I said earlier that no computer or Website is 100% secure or safe from hacker or virus attack. Truth be told, if someone really wants to get to you, they will. It’s just a matter of time. However, for most of the vast majority of computer users and Internet users, Website owners or Web hosting companies, the majority of computer and website attacks by viruses and hackers are not personally motivated at a particular user or company, and are not overly sophisticated. These are the attacks that you can be proactive in preventing if you are willing to take the steps I have outlined here in this two part blog post on securing your computer and Website.</p>
<p>My advice: “Update always and often.”<strong> </strong>Please feel at liberty to pass this information along to your connections on your favorite social media network by clicking on the share button below or tweet it to your friends and followers. It might save their computers or Website’s life one day, and maybe even more, like for instance your reputation and financial well-being.</p>
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		<title>Domain Names that Make Money &#8211; Choose Your Domain Wisely</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Dec 2011 03:29:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Ward</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you want to make money online more quickly, choose your domain name wisely.  Domain names that help you make money can be hard to come by just on the name alone. A few of the obvious domain names that make money are insurance.com, realestate.com, and bible.com. Yet, domain names that make money can be a lot easier to find, and a whole lot cheaper than names like these.  You might come up with a 'catchy' name like SmartRags.com for a cool clothing website.  It's not necessarily a common name, but catchy enough that it can be remembered, and it's easy to spell - two words - smart and rags.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><div style="clear: both; min-height: 1px; height: 3px; width: 100%;"></div><div class='shareaholic-like-buttonset' style='float:none;height:30px;'><a class='shareaholic-fbsend' data-shr_href='http%3A%2F%2Fsdward.com%2Fdomain-names-that-make-money-choose-your-domain-wisely%2F'></a><a class='shareaholic-fblike' data-shr_layout='standard' data-shr_showfaces='false' data-shr_href='http%3A%2F%2Fsdward.com%2Fdomain-names-that-make-money-choose-your-domain-wisely%2F' data-shr_title='Domain+Names+that+Make+Money+-+Choose+Your+Domain+Wisely'></a></div><div style="clear: both; min-height: 1px; height: 3px; width: 100%;"></div><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><p>If you want to make money online more quickly, choose your domain name wisely.  Domain names that help you make money can be hard to come by just on the name alone. A few of the obvious domain names that make money are insurance.com, realestate.com, and bible.com. Yet, domain names that make money can be a lot easier to find, and a whole lot cheaper than names like these.  You might come up with a &#8216;catchy&#8217; name like SmartRags.com for a cool clothing website.  It&#8217;s not necessarily a common name, but catchy enough that it can be remembered, and it&#8217;s easy to spell &#8211; two words &#8211; smart and rags.</p>
<div id="attachment_2380" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 330px"><img class="size-full wp-image-2380 " title="The right domain name DOES make a difference" src="http://sdward.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/digitaloffice2.jpg" alt="" width="320" height="226" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Choosing the right domain name can make all of the difference in the world for your business brand.</p></div>
<p>Domain names that make money are most often the ones that  are easiest to remember, like SmartRags.com for instance, but if someone were to spell the name SmartRagz.com with a &#8220;Z&#8221; at the end, it would not be so successful since it is not a normal spelling of the word &#8216;rags&#8217;.  Here is another example but where the domain names are much longer, yet still memorable.  The truth is, a good domain name might very well be a longer domain than even a few short words.  It could quite possibly be a descriptive phrase that someone might type in a search engine to find something.  Examples of these might be like &#8220;chiropractors in Charleston&#8221; (chiropractorsincharleston.com), &#8220;auto repair shop in Atlanta&#8221; (autorepairshopinatlanta.com), or &#8220;women&#8217;s legal services&#8221; (womenslegalservices.com).</p>
<p>You might be surprised to learn that having a name like insurance.com or realestate.com, as short and as sweet as they are, are not the only kinds of domain names that get a lot of attention.  If you want domain names that make money, you will need to spend a little more time in finding them.  I own over 100 domains &#8211; not that I will ever use them, but I just liked the names and thought they were catchy.  Yet, you can make money in unsuspecting ways with domains that don&#8217;t even relate to what you are selling, IF they can get ranked well.  After all, top page rankings are what you want, right?</p>
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<p>Of course, it should go without saying that your choice for a domain name should be both descriptive and memorable.  It is an absolute must unless you are planning to have an aggressive online marketing strategy to promote it.  Take our domain name for instance - SDWard.com.  It is the short version of my original name, SDWardCompany.com. I mean, by shortening it, people would not have to type out the whole domain name with &#8216;company&#8217; attached to it &#8211; S.D. Ward versus S. D. Ward Company.  Makes sense, right?  Sadly for me, neither of these names have really anything that sticks out other than my name in them.  And, I mean, how many S. D. Ward&#8217;s could there be in the world?</p>
<p><a href="https://www.securepaynet.net/Domains/Search.aspx?ci=19029&amp;prog_id=smartycatdomains"><img class="size-large wp-image-2366 alignright" title="Smart Cats Buy from Smarty Cats" src="http://sdward.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/zagnoli_art_SCD-2-325x305.jpg" alt="" width="325" height="305" /></a></p>
<p>Would you believe over 25,000,000 or so references to my name &#8211; yes, 25 MILLION, (s. d. ward or sd ward or s. d. ward company) with a Google search.  Even if someone typed in my name, there is really no great hope someone actually finding my Website out of the millions of other references to my name.  I remember when we first changed our name over to S. D. Ward &amp; Associates and dropped the &#8216;company&#8217; off of our domain name, our Website was buried on something like page 1500 in Google search results.  Not exactly top page rankings, huh?  It could have been worse though.  I used to own DavidWard.com, but let it lapse years ago (by accident).  Bad mistake, but as for number of instances online, SDWard.com paled in the number of references compared to DavidWard.com which had at the time, over 40 million references.</p>
<p>If you are one of those who don&#8217;t fully understand the hopelessness of a domain being buried 1500 pages away from the first page of google search results for S. D. Ward, it simply meant that unless someone typed in my actual domain name &#8220;www.sdward.com,&#8221; I would never be found by anyone who was looking for me.  I was completely off the map for getting found when I first launched sdward.com as a teaching and coaching Website.  I would have had better success in getting traffic to my website by sticking flyers on windshields than to have someone find my website using Google.</p>
<p>Anyway, I felt that I was destined to be beat out in page rankings by someone else named S. D. Ward that was no doubt one of my distant Ward relatives that have populated the earth like rabbits.  In my defense, the truth be told, most company names are just not real powerful in getting organically ranked with search engines based just on their domain name alone, so the average business owner must work to build page rankings through content and related strategies such as proper indexing, linking and SEO, as well as through that of having a personal or business branding strategy that will drive traffic to their site beyond that of just search engine traffic.  There are other smarter ways to generate traffic to a Website than using a generic company name as a domain name. Our rankings for S. D. Ward have improved significantly, but then I digress here.</p>
<p>If you are open to considering a slightly different and somewhat unorthodox approach to gaining exposure on the Internet without having to pay big bucks to do it, consider the following tips and ideas the next time you are thinking about buying some domain names:</p>
<p><strong>1) </strong>Word of Caution as my number one step!  Be careful where you search for your domains when doing research, especially if you do not plan to buy right away.  There are some domain registrars (will not mention names here) who skim search queries from their domain search pages and if the domain someone is checking on has potential, they will purchase it through a dummy company or third party who works for the registrar, and then turn around and put it up for sale to the highest bidder it there is an interest in the domain by more than one party.  This trend is growing as domains become more and more scarse.</p>
<p><strong>2)  </strong>Write out a list of short questions that start with &#8216;how to&#8217; and &#8217;where to&#8217;  that relate to your business.  If you are in the pet industry, you might have a question like, &#8221;how to research pedegrees&#8217; or &#8217;where to find non toxic pet shampoos&#8217; or &#8216;how to trim a cats claws&#8217; or &#8216;where to find a cat casserole recipe&#8217; (juuust kidding).  These questions that you have come up with may very well be the very questions that an average Internet user might type into a search engine who has the need of finding this information, i.e. www.howtoresearchpedegrees.com or www.wheretofindnontoxicpetshampoos.com.</p>
<p><a href="http://gvo-familydot.myprelaunchinvite.com/celebrity/"><img class="size-full wp-image-1629 alignleft" title="zeroes-250x250" src="http://sdward.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/zeroes-250x250.gif" alt="" width="250" height="250" /></a><strong>3)</strong>  Now the fun begins.  Type these questions that you have come up with into your favorite search engines (Google included) and see what domains pop up with those keyword (key phrases) you have just come up with.  The first thing to do is to check and see how many instances the phrases are referenced.  That gives you an idea of how often others write about it where their pages have been ranked on the Internet. Next, you want to visit your Google keywords tool and do a search for that phrase to see how many people search for that in an average month &#8211; mainly the current month.  This will give you some idea of the amount of traffic potential for the phrases you have chosen.</p>
<p><strong>4)</strong>  If you like the numbers you see in page references as well as average monthly searches for the phrases you have chosen, take the time to do a domain search for those phrases.  Here is why.  One of the very first rules in the Google ranking process is the relevance of a domain name to the actual search inquiry done by someone searching for that phrase, i.e. &#8216;where to find a cat casserole recipe&#8217; (no, not really&#8230; please don&#8217;t be searching for this).  If that key phrase is available, you are on to something that could bring several thousand people to your website if you apply even a few of the other general rules that Google (and other search engines use to rank pages).  I personally recommend smartycatdomains.com because of their commitment to give 50% of their profits to causes that help, encourage and empower single moms (one of the highest densities of those living at or below the poverty-level).</p>
<p><strong>5)</strong>  Once you have purchased the domain, the rest is pretty straight forward. You want to host it with a company you feel offers the best product to promote your Website for the money.  One big precaution is to watch out for those cheap &#8221;UNlimited&#8221; sorts of accounts until you have read the fine print.  They are NOT unlimited, and you could very easily have your site either suspended for too much use or have your credit card charged a penalty for abusive use of the system.  Hint:  Unlimited bandwidth does not mean unlimited data transfer (what happens when people visit your Website and your Website downloads to their computer).  Bandwidth is how many people can visit your Website at one time without crashing your site or slowing it down considerably. Big difference!</p>
<p>In closing, most of us have heard the old adage, &#8220;It&#8217;s all in the name.&#8221;   When it comes to choosing the right descriptive domain name that will give you faster and better page rankings, this descriptive domain name, fast traffic building strategy, may be just what you need to get paying customers to your Website.  Just make sure you have something to offer or sell them when they show up!</p>
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		<title>Securing Your Computer and Website (Pt 1)</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Dec 2011 05:00:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Ward</dc:creator>
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<p>Truth be told, most of us would never forget or overlook such obvious blunders to our welfare, safety, and security. The precautions that we would take are obvious everyday security measures – lock our doors as we leave, close and lock our windows, and certainly not leave our windows down in our car with the keys in the ignition! Ok, so meanwhile, back to your Website. You have a Website; it’s your home on the Internet. It is where everyone that is anyone who wants to compete in the 21st century will be in the near future – online, with their own domain name and their own personally hosted website.</p>
<p>So, think of your Website as your physical house. If your Website is your house, then a search engine is the city, and all of the people who are using the search engine are people out in the community walking or driving around the streets of the city. Unfortunately, just as in the real world, there are those that are looking for houses with windows open or a door that is not fully closed – prowlers, who if given the chance, will break in and steal whatever they can find while you are not home. An Internet prowler is no different. They are looking for ‘loot’, and do not care about your wellbeing, and they will not stop until they rob you if they can.</p>
<p>Of course, everyone that has any sense and uses the Internet knows that cyber-crime is the fastest growing crime in the world. It’s not hard to become a cyber-criminal since most crimes are committed against websites (Internet homes) that have not been adequately protected. And let’s face it. If two middle school boys who were bored one day after school could hack into top secret computers of the military, then chances are someone equally as bored could happen across yours or mine, and do or take whet they wanted to. It’s not rare, but rather frequent nowadays to hear about someone’s website having been hacked into, someone having their passwords stolen, some worm or trojan virus that steals all of someone’s personal and banking information.</p>
<p>It’s life in the 21st century. It’s craziness to think that 30,000,000+ people a year have their identity stolen worldwide. It is huge business! And eventually, even you will have to deal with something like this happening IF you do not take the necessary precautions to prevent it. If you are an individual that runs an eCommerce business, you have even more to lose, in that if your Website gets hacked, you could end up exposing your users and customers to identity theft and your Website’s reputation will be completely ruined. In many cases, you are required by law to have a minimum level of security in place to protect consumers who use your Website. Hint: This is what SSL certificates are for.</p>
<p>Ok, so, now that we know that it’s just a matter of time before we ALL get hacked (half way serious here), what’s the good news? The good news is that if you are willing to apply some basic precautions in managing your website, you can prolong, if not completely avoid becoming a part of the statistics associated with identity theft. Here are the immediate must do things to put in place once you start to self-host your own website. Don’t get too overwhelmed in looking at this list. Some of them are handled by you hosting company, BUT, it is important that you ask your hosting company to be sure. Otherwise, defend yourself.</p>
<p><strong>1)  Get Virus Protection and keep it!</strong> The first line of defense is a good virus protection software program. I recommend that you find someone that subscribes to Consumer Reports and see what the best software is that they are recommending. The top four Security Suites that I recommend are AVG, Norton, McAfee, and Avira AntiVir. I presently use Avira. I can tell you that even if you have a great anti-virus software package you can still get infected since virus attacks can be by newly released viruses. One of my sons was victim to just such a thing on his laptop after visiting a gaming site that ultimately infected his computer without his knowledge (and HE is an amazingly conscientious Internet user). I think he is still working on fixing his laptop.</p>
<p><strong>2)  When you start to self-host your personal Website, change your FTP Passwords often.</strong> FTP (file transfer protocol) passwords are what you use to access the Internet from your computer to upload website files to your website. I recommend that you change them every few weeks, depending on how often you are accessing your website’s administrative control panel (the place where you maintain your website). Because viruses are all the time being written to steal passwords, then sell them off to the highest bidder on the black market, with you changing your passwords regularly, by the time they get sold or the perpetrator has the time to use it (them), they will have already been antiquated (out of date). Yes, I agree, it’s a pain, but it is one of the first and best line of defenses against hackers. I personally use a series of random alpha-numeric passwords that are 16 characters long and they are rotated weekly between the Websites that I personally own, but then I tend to be a bit over-protective since I own a company that provides Web development and hosting services.</p>
<p><strong>3)  Keep your security patches updated!</strong> If you are a Windows Operating System computer user (a PC user, not a Mac), you are familiar with the term security patches. Updating them seems to be an ongoing process, but these security patches are mandatory if you want to successful in protecting your computer from MAJOR security risks! Most Trojan exploitations come through computers that are older, and/or for one reason or another are un-patched with the latest security patches from Microsoft. I suggest that if you are a Windows operating system user, you set your updates to automatic AND still visit the Windows update website regularly to do a manual update. This is in the event your system has a Trojan that slipped by your software and turned off your Windows updates. I personally check for updates every three or four days myself on my own computer, even with my automatic updates turned on.</p>
<p>4)  <strong>Update your software patches often.</strong> We all have personal computers and enjoy the benefits of all the software that make our computers do the things we want them to do to make our lives easier for us. I personally have close to 50 unique programs that I have purchased or had given to me as a reseller of the software that software vendors wanted me to market for them. One of the biggest mistakes of busy people, or better put, impatient Internet users is that of not updating their software when they receive notice that there is an update for it. THIS IS HUGE! I am not sure why, but it just seems to be some sort of mental block in the mind of many people I know that says ‘if it’s not broken, don’t fix it,’ mentality. Software, in order NOT to be broke, must be updated IF it is at all accessible via the Internet (which by the way, 100% of it is unless you disconnect your Internet connection).</p>
<p>I remember hearing of one client who was his own Webmaster had an old version of Adobe Reader that got infected through a PDF virus that made its way to his Website. Some very bad security problems occurred as a result. He seemed clueless how it could have happened, not thinking that viruses (hacker created) could find their way on to his Website via a software program. To him, having a program that was two years out of date with security updates was a less than wise decision on his part to allow that to happen. Turns out that he would get these ‘important update notice’ messages from Adobe that he continually refused since he was too busy each time to deal with it, and finally turned off his notifications for the updates so he would not be interrupted. Bad mistake! Bad. Bad. Never Not let your software updates have their way with your computer.</p>
<p>Lot’s of the latest viruses on the market are targeting software as a way to access your computer and/or Website. How are you doing so far? Have you taken these precautions yet? If you have an hour or so, and you have not gotten these fundamental tools in place for your protection, I want to encourage you to address them as soon as possible. If you do not know how to do these things, be willing to pay someone to help you get them done for your.</p>
<p>You will never regret the time investment in protecting your Website and your future success as a result of protecting your personal information and the information of those who visit or use your Website. In Part 2 of this series on Securing Your Computer and Website, I will talk about some additional precautions that someone who wants to have a secure and trusted Website must consider and implement. It will deal more so on the web hosting company’s responsibility side, and what you can to do to be proactive in protecting your investment of time and money and livelihood in doing business online. If you don’t take anything away from this blog post but one nugget of truth, it would be “Update always, and often.”</p>
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		<title>Getting Top Google Page Rankings Using Video</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Nov 2011 05:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Ward</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Google is an amazing company. And, as always, the ability for Google to out-do themselves never ceases to amaze me. After Google's purchase of YouTube, they immediately went to work on speech recognition interface with audio and video so that now they can convert video speech into contextual written content that can be indexed by their search engine. How cool it that!? This is great news to Internet marketers since now getting top Google page rankings using video can be possible for the first time.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><div style="clear: both; min-height: 1px; height: 3px; width: 100%;"></div><div class='shareaholic-like-buttonset' style='float:none;height:30px;'><a class='shareaholic-fbsend' data-shr_href='http%3A%2F%2Fsdward.com%2Fgetting-top-google-page-rankings-using-video%2F'></a><a class='shareaholic-fblike' data-shr_layout='standard' data-shr_showfaces='false' data-shr_href='http%3A%2F%2Fsdward.com%2Fgetting-top-google-page-rankings-using-video%2F' data-shr_title='Getting+Top+Google+Page+Rankings+Using+Video'></a></div><div style="clear: both; min-height: 1px; height: 3px; width: 100%;"></div><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><p><a href="http://sdward.com/?attachment_id=1127" rel="attachment wp-att-1127"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1127" title="video15" src="http://sdward.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/video15-240x187.jpg" alt="" width="288" height="230" /></a>Google is an amazing company. And, as always, the ability for Google to out-do themselves never ceases to amaze me. After Google&#8217;s purchase of YouTube, they immediately went to work on speech recognition interface with audio and video so that now they can convert video speech into contextual written content that can be indexed by their search engine. How cool it that!? This is great news to Internet marketers since now getting top Google page rankings using video can be possible for the first time.</p>
<p>This is great news for all the &#8216;talkers&#8217; out there in Cyberville who are much better at speaking than they are in writing. Although speech to text and text to speech recognition is not new, Google has done what they always do, and put technology to work for them in better building their brand as the premier search engine of choice by most online marketers.</p>
<p>It makes totally good sense to use the technology that many professional speakers and Webinar presenters have used the speech to text technology to generate transcripts of their presentations for several years now. By converting video to text, Google can index the video just like the written copy of a blog post, like this one for instance. It can&#8217;t be confirmed or not if Google offers transcripts of video that they transcribe, but it would be a great feature to add to their already success filled basket of online marketing and optimization goodies. I would love to have the ability to access my Google user account and or my YouTube account and be able to grab a written copy of my video or Webinar that I might post after a presentation.  All this aside, just think of the powerful nature of this technology adpatation and its ability to get top Google page rankings using video over that of written text! This is a game changer in the minds of most Internet marketers.</p>
<p>In case you didn&#8217;t pick up on what I just implied in all of this, Google can now use your spoken words (spoken text) to categorize and rank your video. For those of you who are still learning about page rankings, this means that when you do a really good video on some subject that is widely searched for, your video could get ranked in top search results, placing you on the first page of Google search results! We did some testing over the ffew months to test this new technology by writing a script on small business finance, and this is what happened in our test:</p>
<p>1)  The first video we did was presented off of the the straight-forward script as written without any research as to potential keywords that might be associated with the subject. Honestly, the rankings were really really bad over the next two weeks and the number of visits to the page were never more than 150 unique hits on any day of the two week period. Most of the higher page hits were in the second week of the two week test. As a part of the test, we implemented a specific channel promotion we use to help promote clients so that we could use it again on our future test videos. In defense of Google, it is fair to say that the video was not written with any keyword or keyphrase research, and we know that this is an important part of the overall formula for getting good page rankings with Google.</p>
<p>2. Our second video was the same content, but we implemented a standardize SEO and SEM practice that we use with our clients on a regular basis. We researched and chose our desired Google keyword and keyphrase choices on the same subject (small business finance). We integrated those Google keywords or keyphrases into our second video on the subject verbatim as listed with Google Adwords listings. At the end of the second week of promoting the second video in the exact same way we did the first video, we saw a dramatic improvement in our video page ranking, and our average daily unique hits were never less than 360 unique hits in the second week of promoting it. We were totally impressed. Just by finding specific Google Adsense keywords and keyphrases, and inserting them into the same script on the same subject, we were able to generate over double the organic traffie to our page. The technology really worked! Very cool!</p>
<p><a href="http://sdward.com/getting-top-google-page-rankings-using-video/seographic1/" rel="attachment wp-att-1742"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1742" title="seographic1" src="http://sdward.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/seographic1.jpg" alt="" width="295" height="172" /></a>3) In our third video on the same subject with almost identical content using the Google keywords and keyphrases from video test two, we rewrote our 3 minute video script to include the keywords and keyphrases at the front end of our video as if they were in the first and second paragraph of a written blog post. We used them at the same density of Google keywords and keyphrases in the video, but placing about 75% of them in the first minute of presentation.  The page rankings of our third video were outrageous! In our second week of promoting our third video, again, using the identical promotion we used with video one and two,  by placing the main keywords or key phrases up front we were able to see our page ranking hit in the top 60 pages of Google results using our keywords and keyphrases. Keep in mind that at the time we did this YouTube video, that there were over 130,000,000 results for small business finance. Our number of unique hits increased to over 700 on an average day in week two of the two week promotion with one day being almost 1000 unique hits.</p>
<p>Our conclusion is quite simply this. Google&#8217;s new romance with their new bride YouTube, and Google&#8217;s amazing technology and their ability to capitalize on the video search engine market, is a homerun for Google of course. But the big winners will be average people using video in a smart way to promote their personal or business brand, product, service, or cause. As popularity of video blogs catch on, it will be a whole new ball game for the online marketing industry as new services emerge to script effective video for those wanting high page rankings and increased traffic to their Websites.</p>
<p>If you would like coaching in how to properly script your next video, contact David Ward and his team at SD Ward &amp; Associates. They offer comprehensive assistance on script writing that can make an impact on your audience. Write them at coachme (at) sdward.com. If you have found this article useful, please take a moment and buzz it up on Google, Tweet it, or share it on your favorite social network to your followers (spread the wealth).  And as always, do leave your comments and hit the LIKE button for FaceBook for us!</p>
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		<title>Network Marketing Success Action Steps and What the Pros Do</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Nov 2011 12:41:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Ward</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ninety-five (95%) of all those who get involved in network marketing or direct sales, whether online or not, will fail to ever earn enough money to make back their personal investment of time and money they have put into it. Sounds like a dismal scenario, doesn't it? And, for most, it comes as no surprise since this is a fairly widespread bit of knowledge. But what might surprise you is why only five percent of those who get involved succeed and ninety-five percent of them fail. Are you ready for this?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><div style="clear: both; min-height: 1px; height: 3px; width: 100%;"></div><div class='shareaholic-like-buttonset' style='float:none;height:30px;'><a class='shareaholic-fbsend' data-shr_href='http%3A%2F%2Fsdward.com%2Fnetwork-marketing-success-action-steps-and-what-the-pros-do%2F'></a><a class='shareaholic-fblike' data-shr_layout='standard' data-shr_showfaces='false' data-shr_href='http%3A%2F%2Fsdward.com%2Fnetwork-marketing-success-action-steps-and-what-the-pros-do%2F' data-shr_title='Network+Marketing+Success+Action+Steps+and+What+the+Pros+Do'></a></div><div style="clear: both; min-height: 1px; height: 3px; width: 100%;"></div><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><p>Seventy percent (70%) of everyone that gets into network marketing will either fail or at best just barely pay for the monthly cost of staying active in their network marketing business opportunity.  Another twenty-seven percent (27%) will make a very average income, but not enough to leave their full time job and still maintain their present level of income.  ONLY THREE PERCENT (3%) of all those who get involved in network marketing or direct sales, whether online or not, will earn enough money to leave their full time employment and live significantly above their present level of income. Sounds like a dismal scenario, doesn&#8217;t it? Yet these statistics come as no surprise since this is a fairly widespread bit of knowledge. If you want to be in the 3% of those who get wealthy through network marketing, then you must learn the network marketing success action steps and what the pros do.  There is just no way around it.</p>
<p>This knowledge is especially known among those who DO make money in the industry. But what might surprise you is why only 3% percent of those who get involved succeed and ninety-five percent of them fail.  Simply put, achieving network marketing Success is rooted in that of learning the network marketing success action steps and what the pros do to be successful &#8211; and then making a commitment to do it.</p>
<p><a href="http://familydot.com"><img class="alignright size-large wp-image-2249" title="The Best Email System" src="http://sdward.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/Banner_Art-34-325x277.jpg" alt="" width="325" height="277" /></a>Success in network marketing is not founded on rocket science. It is not some top secret formula that only a select few know about and don&#8217;t want to share.  If those leaders in network marketing that are making the serious money in the industry could have any one single wish come true in their network marketing success dreams, it would be that everyone they introduce into their network marketing business would be successful to a point that they could work their network marketing business full time and earn a full time income doing it.</p>
<p>So, what&#8217;s the reason for so many people failing at network marketing?  It&#8217;s the same reason why so many people fail at life in general. Are you ready for this? It&#8217;s the number one reason that every network marketing participant that fails does not want to admit.  It is the lack of taking action!  That is it. It is nothing else. It is not poor training. It is not a bad compensation plan. It is not a bad product that no one wants. It is not the economy, not that no one has money, not that the person marketing the product or service has little or not sales experience. It is plain and simply that they willfully choose NOT to take action on what they know they have to do in order to be successful.</p>
<p>If you are still reading this, it means that you are one of two types of people.  You are someone that is involved in network marketing and making a boat load of money, and hoping to learn something new that can help you even more; or, you are a person involved in network marketing that is struggling to figure out how you are going to make your network marketing business work for you instead of you working for it. You might even be someone that is considering getting into a network marketing business and really don&#8217;t want to waste time once you do, so you are researching the &#8216;how tos&#8217; of being successful in this type of industry.  Whatever the reason you are here and still reading this, here is what you want to learn to apply to your weekly schedule in network marketing, and what you want to teach others that you introduce to the network marketing industry.</p>
<p>Remember the reason I just mentioned a moment ago for the most number of failures in the network marketing industry? The lack of action? Well, at the core of this reason is the harsh reality of the sin of procrastination.  When a person lacks a sense of vision for what they are doing or lacks a belief in themselves that they can be as successful as anyone else, they will find every form of excuse and rationale as to why they can&#8217;t take action on those things that are important for their success. Ultimately, this mindset robs the very people who need a financial breakthrough in their lives the most of the ability to succeed as they were meant to. <a href="http://sdward.com/?attachment_id=985" rel="attachment wp-att-985"><img class="alignleft size-large wp-image-985" style="width: 274px; height: 161px;" title="fdcmen3" src="http://sdward.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/fdcmen3-300x200.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a></p>
<p>If you are involved in either a network marketing business or a direct selling business, and are presently struggling with the lack of daily action in your business goals, there is hope for you. Here are some immediate action steps you can implement immediately, both in your daily life, as well as two that you can apply on a weekly basis in your present network marketing or direct selling business. If you begin to implement them into your daily routine in the next week, you will begin to see the tide changing for the better as it concerns your success in your business. The more you apply these action steps on a daily basis, and the two weekly steps on a consistent weekly basis, the greater your opportunity to succeed will become. And eventually, you will not be able to stop the ultimate positive affect of their influence on your success.</p>
<p>DAILY ACTION STEPS (3 hours per day total)</p>
<ul>
<li>BECOME A SERVANT AND HELPER &#8211; (30 minutes) - Help one person with a personal need that is totally unrelated to your business opportunity, whether that assistance is in talking to them, listening to them, doing some act of kindness for them, or going out of your way to help them, where your action in helping them will allow them to be more successful in their personal or public life. This builds your personal brand as someone who is interested in more than just making money off everyone you meet.</li>
<li>INTRODUCE YOURSELF TO PEOPLE - (30 minutes) &#8211; People are your source for prospects, so it stands to reason that the more people you get to know, the more possible prospects you have. Spend <a href="http://www.mpbtoday.com/marciabrown"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-2221" title="Free Groceries for Life" src="http://sdward.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/MPB_Advert5.png" alt="" width="166" height="207" /></a>30 minutes each day meeting new people. With social media being so powerful as it is, this is easily done online through your favorite social media network.  I do however strongly recommend that you engage people in the things they like to do, i.e. sports, entertainment, family, work, school, church, synagogue or mosque. Physical contacts are much more likely to be open and trusting of you than those you meet online who have no idea or understanding of who you are. In those cases, you must work to build the &#8220;KNOW, LIKE, and TRUST&#8221; factor with them through ongoing communications electronically. Because most people lack the skill and tools necessary to be successful at Internet marketing, this can be a serious setback and lesson in frustration and futility if they attempt to &#8216;wing it&#8217; doing drive by sales pitches to the masses of people they run across online. In most cases, this sort of conduct will get a person&#8217;s profile terminated by the social media network.  This is especially true with Facebook.</li>
<li>BUILD RELATIONSHIPS - (30 minutes) &#8211; Take 30 minutes a day and get to know the people you have met either in the past or recently through your life and your daily activities. Relationship building is so important in life.  The better our relationships are, the greater our opportunities are for personal success (intellectual, emotional, physical, and material).  Don&#8217;t rush the relationship building process. Remember, prospecting is like that of filling a pipeline that carries oil to a refinery. The more you pump into it, the greater production you will have by the time the oil is refined. Also remember that it takes time to get to know people and for them to get to know you (Know, Like, and Trust factor).  When someone knows you, they will most often like you (that is if you are a likeable person).  When a person likes you, they tend to trust you.  Once they trust you, they become more open to what you have to say and what you have to offer; and, once they know what you do, they will most likely want to do business with you over someone else that they don&#8217;t know.  Relationships make the difference. Learn how to build healthy and lasting relationships and you will find that success will chase you down and tackle you in life.  Learning to do this online in a systematic automated way can be very powerful. Yes, I said automated. Do you know that you can build relationships in an automated fashion? Doing this online as a result of having taken the time to get to know people you meet on social media networks &#8211; enough to discover their needs and desires &#8211; will save you a lot of time meeting people for coffee or tea as you are attempting to prospect.</li>
<li>COMMUNICATE WITH THE WORLD &#8211; (30 minutes) - Email, call, or text at least five (5) qualified prospects - those who you have previously spoken to about your opportunity - each day with at least one fact about or reason why they would benefit from being involved in your opportunity.  A prospect needs to know you are serious and excited, because it will be that commitment and enthusiasm that will motivate them once they are involved. They need to be taught why it would be good for them to be involved, and why you want them to work with you in building their business with you. Remember that the average individual who makes a purchase from a sales representative in direct sales is contacted five times on average by the sales representative before they make a buying decision. Keep the communications short and to the point, informative, and with an invite or call to action to look closer at what you are doing. (15 minutes)</li>
<li>ASK FOR A PROSPECT&#8217;S HELP &#8211; (15 minutes)  Spend 15 minutes a day asking those you have gotten to know over time (whether a week, month or year) aksing  prospects for their help.  As you get to know people and win their trust, it will be a natural thing in conversation to talk about what you do for a living or for work.  When the subject comes up, do not act like a maniac on steroids and jump into &#8216;used car salesman mode&#8217; or else you will lose both credibility and favor with your prospect!  After they have asked you what you do, give them a 60 second overview of the benefits of what you offer and who is most suited for what you offer, then ask them with every bit of sincerity within you, &#8220;Would you be willing to look at what I am doing and then suggest a hand full of people that you know who might fully appreciate what I am offering that I could contact about it, and use your name as being the person who thought they might be interested?&#8221;  This &#8216;reverse prospect qualification&#8217; technique is a powerful, but is a little used sales technique that can explode your business. It builds your prospect list while at the same time positioning the prospect you have just asked the question to for wanting to get involved and capitalize on the positive response that his referrals have had towards your business opportunity. I have seen this in action first hand and by observation and seen 25 or thirty people end up getting sponsored in less than a days time. Use it and be patient in the process &#8211; even if it takes you a week to follow up on the leads you have been given.</li>
<li>SHARE YOUR OPPORTUNITY &#8211; (15 minutes) &#8211; Now a days sharing your business opportunity is as easy as inviting someone to watch a powerpoint presentation or video on your computer, or simply referring them to your opportunities replicated website. Share your business opportunity with at least one person face to face, by telephone, Skype, video conferencing, through a webinar or through a direct invite to visit your replicated website where your business opportunity is presented.  Once a person has been exposed, they are a &#8220;knowing prospect&#8221; meaning that they have the knowledge of what you are doing. Now you must give them understanding about it. This can take as little as a munute or as long as a month of answering questions, revisiting the benefits to them, and revealing the opportunity in a new way.  By the way, this step is a compement of the &#8216;reverse prospect qualification&#8217; technique.</li>
<li>EDUCATE THE WORLD &#8211; (30 minutes) - Spend 30 minutes a day educating the world about the benefits of what you have to offer. This could be ideally done through a personally hosted Website where you have a blog or article repository.  I have found that if you educate someone enough about something that is beneficial to them, that unless they have a personal problem with you in particular, they will find it natural to want to learn even more and give serious consideration to what you are doing.  Knowledge is power.  Educate people into success.</li>
</ul>
<p>WEEKLY ACTION STEPS (Time dependent on methods utilized)</p>
<ul>
<li>Attend a training meeting whether online or physically to learn from others, and to teach others.  In ever instance that you do, invite at least one individual to join you who is in your business opportunity education collecting pipeline. This builds depth of understanding in what you are doing by both learning/being encouraged, and teaching/encouraging.</li>
<li>Plan and do one online Webinar presentation per week for 5 individuals who have not been exposed to your business opportunity, but have said they would like to learn more. These small online meetings are easy and fun to do; and you can even invite your sponsor or someone in your upline to do it for you. You need only host it. (If you need a good web conferencing tool, check out the <a href="http://gvo-familydot.gvoconference.com/" target="_blank">GVO-FamilyDot conferencing tool</a>.  It&#8217;s only $9.00 per month for a 50 seat web conferencing room (90% cheaper than our next reputable competitor.  The web cast rooms are very easy to set up and to invite people to, and you can do video, powerpoint, audio, chat or all four. If you feel awkward in doing your first Webinar, ask someone with experience in your up-line to do it for you and you simply host it by introducing him or her to your participants. This is a great way to learn and to build confidence.</li>
<li>Plan and do one online Webinar training session a week for your immediate personally sponsored downline on the latest training and recruitment techniques that the leaders in your business are using. The first one you do should be with those you are closest to and work with the most who respect you and understand that you are learning just like they are. It is a great way to lead by example, and a great way to build confidence into the lives of others that participate as you call on them to share their experiences and success stories.</li>
<li>These Action Points listed above are proven and time tested, and used by the world&#8217;s most financially successful network marketing and direct sales professionals; and they are not at all difficult to do. The KEY however is to TAKE ACTION on them, whether you ease into it by doing just one of the daily Action Steps each day for a week and then the following week add another, then the next week after that add another, until you are consistently doing all of these on a daily basis.</li>
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<p>The same goes with the weekly Action Steps. IF YOU have something that you personally do that you have found helpful and financially successful that has allowed you to break free from procrastination and to take action, please share it with our readers here in the comments section below. And, if you know others in either network marketing or direct sales, and you have the time, PLEASE SHARE THIS ARTICLE with your followers on your favorite social media networks, like Twitter or FaceBook. Let’s help others realize their personal and financial goals together. Thanks!</p>
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